For Those Who Work A Lot

For those who work a lot and have children or plan to have children

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door. 
SON: "Daddy, may I ask you something?" 
DAD: "Yeah, sure, what is it?" 
SIN: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?" 
DAD: "That does not concern you. Why do you ask?" says angrily
SON: "I just wanted to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make $ 50 an hour."
"Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down.
"Dad, please and, can you lend me $ 25? "
The father was furious: "If the only reason you askedto lend you $ 25 that you can buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then turn around and go straight to the room and think about why you are being so selfish. I do not work hard everyday for such childish frivolities "
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy questions ... "How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?"
After some hour, had calmed down, and started to think: "Maybe there was something he really needed to buy those $ 25 ... really did not ask for money very often ..."
The man went to his room and opened the door.
"Are you asleep, son?" he asked.
"No, Dad, I'm awake," replied the boy.
"I was thinking ... maybe I was too hard on you earlier. I had a tough day and took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $ 25 you asked for. "
The boy sat straight up, smiling: "Oh, thank you daddy!" he yelled.
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up novčanica.Kad he saw that the boy already had money, again began ljutiti.Dječak slowly counted out his money and looked at his father.
"Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled.
"Because I did not have enough, but now I do.", replied the boy.
"Dad , I have $ 50. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I want to have dinner with you. " 
The father was crushed. He hugged his son and asked him for forgiveness. This is just a short reminder to all of you. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with people who really matter to us, those close to our heart. 
Remember to share that $ 50 with someone you love. If we die tomorrow, the company that you work for can easily replaced you. But family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for life.

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Modern risk

Modern risk

"No one is doing anything, and this is a dangerous epidemic of obesity, alcoholism and smoking '

Loneliness and social isolation destroys health worse than obesity, smoking, alcoholism, showed extensive research on the three million people. Worse still, nobody does anything.

While the last 10 years or so, there's big talk about the harmfulness of overweight and sedentary lifestyle, driven campaign which seeks to encourage exercise and even introduce taxes on fat and sugar, usaljenost even the World Health Organization is not considered a threat. 

However, a drastic increase in depression and anxiety disorders is becoming epidemic. Dr. Julianne Holt-Lunstad warns that we must begin to really understand their social relations. Even if not completed suicide. "Loneliness destroys health worse than alcohol, 15 cigarettes a day or obesity," warns Dr. Holt Lunstad . He added that in developed countries, more and more people live and only less communicating with people. 

But the study showed the bright side of the psyche - how loneliness destroys health, so it protects socializing. For example, people who every day hanging out with friends and family are less like to have harmful effects of stress.

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Meet Your Mate

Meet Your Mate

MEET YOUR MATE

In the dating pool, there are tons of places to meet people, but where would you go to meet your ideal mate? Now that is the million dollar question…

You must first know what you are looking for in your ideal mate. Doe he/she have to be intelligent, good looking, fun, spontaneous? You must obviously need to have an idea of the type of person you are looking for before you can even go out there and start searching.

Once you have listed all the traits you are looking for, this is when you begin narrowing the search...

Fun Loving Party Animal    

Are you looking for the fun loving mate who is the life of the party? The obvious place is a bar or club. There you will find him/her out on the dance floor getting their groove on or surrounded by people with a drink in their hand. This person is the social butterfly, the magnet that attracts people of all types to them. There is always someone waiting in the wings vying for their attention. To attract this person, you must also be fun loving and very secure with yourself. You must do something to catch their attention in some way.

The Intelligent Braniac

If your ideal mate is someone who is highly intelligent, you might focus on going to the library, attending an event where there is sure to be intelligent specimens, or joining a group that involves philosophical or intelligent discussions. Although the library will carry all types, you will need to zero in on the studious book worm studying in some desolate corner. You could also research where all the medical conferences will be held at, pass through the event, and you might just happen to run into a doctor or nurse. Or you could join a book club or an investment club where people meet to discuss books and financial strategy. Whatever field your mate may be in, you will need to target or plan out your strategy if you are truly serious about finding him/her.  The point is, you need to be proactive and be very specific about the type of person you are looking for.

The Athlete

If you are looking for the athletic type, you should attend a sporting event or hang out at a local sports bar when you know a game is going to be on. This section pertains mainly to women, but men might want to date someone who is athletic as well. If you’re looking for someone who swims, plays golf, plays volleyball, or surfs, you just have to situate yourself in the places where your ideal mate might be found. For instance, a swimmer or surfer will obviously be hanging out at the beach or maybe the local pool/YMCA. A golfer will be at the golf course putting away or at the driving range practicing their swing. A volleyball player might also be at the beach or playing in an indoor gym. I think you get the point…if you want action, go to where the action is.

The Sweet and Caring Nurturer

If you want to find a mate who is sweet, kind, and nurturing, you will usually find this type of person volunteering their time at a hospital, homeless shelter, or at any worthy organization. This is the person who is selfless and puts other’s needs before their own. You will find this is the type of mate who you can always count on to be there. They are the types of people who want to improve and better the world by offering their time. The philanthropists are the “doers” of the world. They are generous with their time and often very dependable.

The Adventurer/Traveler

The adventurer/traveler is usually the free spirit, and therefore harder to track and even harder to “tame.” These types of individuals are usually more cultured and wise to the world because they have seen and experienced so many things from their travels. The adventurer type is fearless, and they will try almost anything. He/she loves the thrill of experiencing new cultures, traveling to distant places, and finding adventure in any situation. You should sign yourself up with a singles tour group or join an adventure or travel club. You will most likely find your ideal mate in these specific places because the adventurer/traveler type will not “settle down” with a person who does not share this interest. This type of person will not marry a person who is not just as adventurous because who wants to travel alone and leave their spouse at home? You could also join an internet community specific to travelers or adventure seekers. Again, the adventurer/traveler is a very specific type so if you want to attract this type of person into your life, you will need to be very specific.

These are just some of the different character types we might be looking for in a mate. The KEY to meeting your mate is being very specific as to what type of person you are looking for. Visualize the type of person you want to spend your life with. Hold this image in your mind and then take action. Take up on the different opportunities and resources that are currently offered and available to you, such as the internet. Join a new discussion group or sign up at a local club.  Go to the places you think your ideal mate would most likely show up. Attend events and meet new people. The point is, get yourself out there. You cannot expect to meet “Mr. Right” or “Ms. Right” sitting on your ass. Those of you who do not stop will eventually be rewarded and you will meet your mate.

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The Qualities Of A Muslim Husband

I am not sure how a Muslim husband should be, but this is worth reading and applies to every husband, Muslim or not.

These Should  Be The Qualities Of A Muslim Husband

1. Make your wife feel safe, does not threaten her with divorce.

2. Give sincere salaams.

3. Treat it gently, as a weaker vessel.

4. Advise her in private with the fastest time in the best way and 'climate'.

5. Be generous with her.

6. Heat the seat for her, you will warm your heart.

7. Avoid anger, do wudhu at all times.

8. Is looking good and smelling to his wife.

9. Do not be rigid or hard-hearted to her.

10. Be a good listener.

11. Yes to cuddle. Not for discussion.

12. Call your wife with the best names, nicknames, she will like to hear.

13. Take a pleasant surprise.

14. Preserve and protect the language.

15. Wait, accept and ignore its flaws.

16. Give sincere compliments.

17. Encourage her to maintain good relations with her family.

18. Contact theme of interest.

19. Compliment her for her relatives.

20. Give gifts to each other.

21. Free to the routine, surprise her.

22. Have a good opinion of each other.

23. Have good manners, forget the little things, look no defects.

24. Be patient during pregnancy.

25. Respect it by his jealousy.

26. Be humble.

27. Sacrifice your happiness for her.

28. Help at home with the housework.

29. Help her to love their relatives, however, did not try to force it.

30. Let her know that she is the ideal woman for you.

31. Remember his wife in Du'a.

32. Leave the past Allah, no basement or bring it to light.

33. Do not act like you're doing her a favor, remember that Allah is the Provider, the husband is only the carrier of living for the family.

34. Take Shaitan as your enemy, not his wife.

35. Put food in the mouth of his wife.

36. Treat your wife as the most precious pearl that you want to protect.

37. Show him your smile.

38. Do not ignore the little things, deal with them before they came to be large.

39. Respect and show that you appreciate their thinking.

40. Help her find and build its internal strengths and skills.

41. Respect when she can not be in the mood for intimacy.

Keep to the Sunnah of foreplay, do not jump on it like an animal.

42. Help her to take care of children.

43. Sit down and make meals together.

44. Tell it in advance when you travel or return trip.

45. Do not leave home angry.

46. Keep the confidentiality and privacy of home.

47. Encourage each other in the worship of Allah.

48. Living with her kindness, goodness, justice, in good times and bad.

49. Show care for their health and well-being.

50. Remember you also is not perfect, so perfect -If.

51. Share your happiness and sadness with her.

52. Have mercy on their weaknesses.

53. Be strong support for her support.

The above list is a difficult task, but:

"Nothing is difficult when done to the satisfaction of Allah, and nothing is easy when done to the satisfaction of the ego." We ask Allah, the Most High, the path to success and virtue. Amen.

***From an anonymous source

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Heart Touching True Love Story

Heart Touching True Love Story

There was a Boy and a Girl,
They were best friends for years and years,
They could Talk for hours on the Phone and text each other for days,
When They were Together;
Not a single Sad Thought could cross their Minds,
everything was Great, But One Day;

The Boy did not Answer any Call or Reply to any Text for a Day,
The Girl was worried that something was Wrong..
at night She couldn’t Sleep.., She was sitting in her Room Crying,
and It was then that She Realized how much He Means to Her..?

The next Morning;
She woke Up from a Phone call.., It was the Boy..:)

Boy : Hey..,
Girl : I am so glad that you Called Me, What happened to you yesterday ??
Boy : I was Busy
[ The GIRL Understood that;
Something was Wrong but could not Ask]

[silence]

Boy : You know..; We should Stop talking..!
Girl: What??.., But Why ??
Boy: I am Sorry, Bye..!

[He Disconnected the call, and She Felt as If Somebody
had Slammed the door on Her face]

Everything else Flashed in Her Mind,
Tears :
Cars running by Her..
Roof of some building..and Sunset..
She couldn’t understand anything..
She started Feeling Lonely, rejected, and broken..:’(

That was the answer to everything! His words were pouncing on her..
Her heart wanted to jump out!

He was the One..! “Why..??”
She Screamed at the Top of her Voice;
Then She made up Her Mind to make a last Try to get Him Back..!

[She called Him Up]
Girl: hi…
Boy: Why are you calling Me?
Girl: I need to tell you Something..
Boy: Go Ahead.
Girl: I Just Wanted You to know one thing before we stopped talking!
Boy: Tell me..!

Girl: Are you All right?
[She broke off..!
She tried but may be he doesn't really Care about Her,
She Thought!
She wasn't His friend in the first Place...
Tears were slowly running Worst :'(
She left the House with a Note..!

[5 hours later]

Phone Rang in the Boy’s Room,
It was the Girl’s Mum,
The girl was lying in the hospital, Got hit by a Car, :’(
The Boy rushed to the Hospital where She was.

She Opened Her Eyes with the Boy’s name..,
He took her Hand..

Boy: I am so Sorry Its all my fault..! But;
I promise when U get better I’ll make It up to You..:(

Girl: I wont get Better..
Boy: No..! No Don’t say that..:(
Girl: just tell me one thing Why did you do it?

Boy told her that He had a Heart problem ‘n
he did not want her to be worried;
‘n there was a risk that he could have Died..!

Boy: I did that because I…..I…..I Love you..?
Girl : I LOVE YOU TOO..? and After That her heart Stopped Beating… She Died..! 
The Boy died 10 min's later from a Heart Attack.. 

He could not live with the thought that She died Because of Him.. 

Moral:

If You Love Someone…;
Then Don’t Hold Back Your Feelings…
because Love is The Reason to Live..!
Love is Beautiful..? !

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