Meet Your Mate
MEET YOUR MATE
In the dating pool, there are tons of places to meet people, but where would you go to meet your ideal mate? Now that is the million dollar question…
You must first know what you are looking for in your ideal mate. Doe he/she have to be intelligent, good looking, fun, spontaneous? You must obviously need to have an idea of the type of person you are looking for before you can even go out there and start searching.
Once you have listed all the traits you are looking for, this is when you begin narrowing the search...
Fun Loving Party Animal
Are you looking for the fun loving mate who is the life of the party? The obvious place is a bar or club. There you will find him/her out on the dance floor getting their groove on or surrounded by people with a drink in their hand. This person is the social butterfly, the magnet that attracts people of all types to them. There is always someone waiting in the wings vying for their attention. To attract this person, you must also be fun loving and very secure with yourself. You must do something to catch their attention in some way.
The Intelligent Braniac
If your ideal mate is someone who is highly intelligent, you might focus on going to the library, attending an event where there is sure to be intelligent specimens, or joining a group that involves philosophical or intelligent discussions. Although the library will carry all types, you will need to zero in on the studious book worm studying in some desolate corner. You could also research where all the medical conferences will be held at, pass through the event, and you might just happen to run into a doctor or nurse. Or you could join a book club or an investment club where people meet to discuss books and financial strategy. Whatever field your mate may be in, you will need to target or plan out your strategy if you are truly serious about finding him/her. The point is, you need to be proactive and be very specific about the type of person you are looking for.
The Athlete
If you are looking for the athletic type, you should attend a sporting event or hang out at a local sports bar when you know a game is going to be on. This section pertains mainly to women, but men might want to date someone who is athletic as well. If you’re looking for someone who swims, plays golf, plays volleyball, or surfs, you just have to situate yourself in the places where your ideal mate might be found. For instance, a swimmer or surfer will obviously be hanging out at the beach or maybe the local pool/YMCA. A golfer will be at the golf course putting away or at the driving range practicing their swing. A volleyball player might also be at the beach or playing in an indoor gym. I think you get the point…if you want action, go to where the action is.
The Sweet and Caring Nurturer
If you want to find a mate who is sweet, kind, and nurturing, you will usually find this type of person volunteering their time at a hospital, homeless shelter, or at any worthy organization. This is the person who is selfless and puts other’s needs before their own. You will find this is the type of mate who you can always count on to be there. They are the types of people who want to improve and better the world by offering their time. The philanthropists are the “doers” of the world. They are generous with their time and often very dependable.
The Adventurer/Traveler
The adventurer/traveler is usually the free spirit, and therefore harder to track and even harder to “tame.” These types of individuals are usually more cultured and wise to the world because they have seen and experienced so many things from their travels. The adventurer type is fearless, and they will try almost anything. He/she loves the thrill of experiencing new cultures, traveling to distant places, and finding adventure in any situation. You should sign yourself up with a singles tour group or join an adventure or travel club. You will most likely find your ideal mate in these specific places because the adventurer/traveler type will not “settle down” with a person who does not share this interest. This type of person will not marry a person who is not just as adventurous because who wants to travel alone and leave their spouse at home? You could also join an internet community specific to travelers or adventure seekers. Again, the adventurer/traveler is a very specific type so if you want to attract this type of person into your life, you will need to be very specific.
These are just some of the different character types we might be looking for in a mate. The KEY to meeting your mate is being very specific as to what type of person you are looking for. Visualize the type of person you want to spend your life with. Hold this image in your mind and then take action. Take up on the different opportunities and resources that are currently offered and available to you, such as the internet. Join a new discussion group or sign up at a local club. Go to the places you think your ideal mate would most likely show up. Attend events and meet new people. The point is, get yourself out there. You cannot expect to meet “Mr. Right” or “Ms. Right” sitting on your ass. Those of you who do not stop will eventually be rewarded and you will meet your mate.
By: Outside SourceFamily
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