I am not sure how a Muslim husband should be, but this is worth reading and applies to every husband, Muslim or not.
These Should Be The Qualities Of A Muslim Husband
1. Make your wife feel safe, does not threaten her with divorce.
2. Give sincere salaams.
3. Treat it gently, as a weaker vessel.
4. Advise her in private with the fastest time in the best way and 'climate'.
5. Be generous with her.
6. Heat the seat for her, you will warm your heart.
7. Avoid anger, do wudhu at all times.
8. Is looking good and smelling to his wife.
9. Do not be rigid or hard-hearted to her.
10. Be a good listener.
11. Yes to cuddle. Not for discussion.
12. Call your wife with the best names, nicknames, she will like to hear.
13. Take a pleasant surprise.
14. Preserve and protect the language.
15. Wait, accept and ignore its flaws.
16. Give sincere compliments.
17. Encourage her to maintain good relations with her family.
18. Contact theme of interest.
19. Compliment her for her relatives.
20. Give gifts to each other.
21. Free to the routine, surprise her.
22. Have a good opinion of each other.
23. Have good manners, forget the little things, look no defects.
24. Be patient during pregnancy.
25. Respect it by his jealousy.
26. Be humble.
27. Sacrifice your happiness for her.
28. Help at home with the housework.
29. Help her to love their relatives, however, did not try to force it.
30. Let her know that she is the ideal woman for you.
31. Remember his wife in Du'a.
32. Leave the past Allah, no basement or bring it to light.
33. Do not act like you're doing her a favor, remember that Allah is the Provider, the husband is only the carrier of living for the family.
34. Take Shaitan as your enemy, not his wife.
35. Put food in the mouth of his wife.
36. Treat your wife as the most precious pearl that you want to protect.
37. Show him your smile.
38. Do not ignore the little things, deal with them before they came to be large.
39. Respect and show that you appreciate their thinking.
40. Help her find and build its internal strengths and skills.
41. Respect when she can not be in the mood for intimacy.
Keep to the Sunnah of foreplay, do not jump on it like an animal.
42. Help her to take care of children.
43. Sit down and make meals together.
44. Tell it in advance when you travel or return trip.
45. Do not leave home angry.
46. Keep the confidentiality and privacy of home.
47. Encourage each other in the worship of Allah.
48. Living with her kindness, goodness, justice, in good times and bad.
49. Show care for their health and well-being.
50. Remember you also is not perfect, so perfect -If.
51. Share your happiness and sadness with her.
52. Have mercy on their weaknesses.
53. Be strong support for her support.
The above list is a difficult task, but:
"Nothing is difficult when done to the satisfaction of Allah, and nothing is easy when done to the satisfaction of the ego." We ask Allah, the Most High, the path to success and virtue. Amen.
***From an anonymous source
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