Showing posts with label School. Show all posts
Showing posts with label School. Show all posts

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Wondering Thoughts

Facing the street, I sit in my car and observe the cats passing through busy traffic as the bell rings; something the students keep their ears listening for it is time to go home. I wonder where that cat came from.  It must be from one of those newly built houses across the middle school. The houses lined up in rows, manicured lawns and almost identical, I would be lost sometime if I am drunk. But, no, I don't drink. I am sober as an angel. The weather is nice but a little warm as summer starts rolling in. There was no wind and that makes it a little boring to wait for my student. At least with the wind blowing a little harder, I'd see some dust going around in circles, like little tornadoes. I really don't want to be in a tornado, heard it to be scary. Wondering thoughts, too many...

Looking in the front, I see cars parked on the street and some students standing under trees for shade. On my right, a guy sits on a lawn chair he brought, got up as the bell rings. He must have been waiting for a while, I wonder. Is it really worth bringing a chair to sit while waiting when it only takes a few minutes for his son to get out of the school building? My mind wanders again while I got out of my car to check on my student. I couldn't see her from the spot she usually waits for me but she saw me first. She came running to me then heads back after dropping her backpack. She forgot something!


 Two girls were heading my way and I happen to know one of them so I smiled. She then told me that my daughter usually waits over the left side of the campus and told me to go over there. I said thank you to her and waited. She came back to tell me if I might be waiting in the wrong spot. Oh, I talk to her already and will wait here. And she, blushing in embarrassment, walk away with her friend. Then, my daughter emerges from the gate, running towards me. We're rolling to McDonalds for ice cream. No more wondering thoughts, my daughter is with me and that 's the most important thing today. 

Idle mind entertains too many thoughts. I better focus my mind with the person I love.

Saturday, September 14, 2013

What Does Okay Means?


My daughter was having some breathing problems today. As a concerned parent, I had a small talk with her about taking the inhaler in her backpack just in case she needs it with the instruction to use it only when needed. That means, no playing with it and no sharing to anybody. It also means, it is her private property for the purpose of helping her breath well in case of an attack. Last year, I did the same thing. She had the inhaler in her backpack all year. As a mother, I am concern for her health and believed that doing so is the right thing to do.

When we got to school, I immediately told her teacher that she had the inhaler in her backpack and that she knows how to use it. The teacher said “Okay”.  That was a good reaction for me, relaxed and confident my goal for the day is taken cared of, my daughter will surely take good care of it. I went home and enjoy the day with the chores waiting for me to get done.

I get a call at 10:20 from the office informing me it is absolutely forbidden to bring medicine to school and I needed to come pick her up. I was shocked! Did I miss the teacher’s “Okay” word?  Anyway, I went to the office to deal with it. I was given a form to fill out  and have the doctor sign it. Then I can bring the inhaler to the office; they will keep it locked up there!

I was confused. My purpose to let my daughter carry the inhaler is for her to use it when necessary, if an asthma attack occurs. But with the way I am told by the new law, a kid who has an asthma attack have to go all the way to the office for their inhaler. The office secretary told me that is the law. I wonder how the school deals with a situation like this -  during an asthma attack, the patient just could not make it to the office, end up worst than just having difficulty breathing, collapse and who knows what happens?


Okay, maybe I trust my daughter way too much. As a parent, I should know if my child is trustworthy. It is possible that kids will pass it around friends and that is not good. There are too many possibilities and my only concern is my daughter. What is going to happen if my daughter has a terrible attack and died on the spot before she can get the inhaler? It’s only my over exaggerated thought but it is possible too.What does okay means in this situation?



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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

A Possibility


I sent my daughter to school today along with her inhaler in her back pack. She is having some breathing problems so I wanted her to have it just incase. I have instructed her to use it only when needed. That means, no playing with it and no sharing to anybody. It also means, it is her private property for the purpose of helping her breath well in case of an attack. Last year, I did the same thing. She had the inhaler in her backpack all year. As a mother, I am concern for her health and believed that doing so is the right thing to do.

When we got to school, I immediately told her teacher that she had the inhaler in her backpack & knows how to use it. The teacher said “Okay”.  That was a good reaction for me, relaxed and confident my daughter will take good care of it. I went home and enjoy the day with the chores waiting for me to get done.

I got a call at 10:20 from the office informing me it is absolutely forbidden to bring meds to school & I needed to come pick her up. I was shocked! Did I miss the teacher’s “Okay” word?  Anyway, I went to the office to deal with it. I was given a form to fill out & have the doctor sign it. Then I can bring the inhaler to the office & they will keep it locked up there!

I was confused. My purpose to let my daughter carry the inhaler is for her to use it when necessary, if an asthma attack occurs. But with the way I am told by the new law, a kid who has an asthma attack have to go all the way to the office for their inhaler. The office secretary told me that is the law. I have no idea!


Okay, maybe I was just too trusting to my daughter. It is possible that kids will pass it around friends and that is not good. There are too many possibilities and my only concern is my daughter. What is going to happen if my daughter has a terrible attack and died on the spot before she can get the inhaler? It’s only my over exaggerated thought but it is a possibility too. I do understand that safety for all kids plays an important role in this law. However, I had my daughter carry her inhaler last year, year round and nobody said a word. It was safe with her.
 

I am a law abiding citizen, therefore the form given by the office has to have a doctor signed and to forward it to the office to make sure my daughter has an inhaler in case she needs it. 



(shared by a parent friend)

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