You Should Eliminate this in life 2015
The new year is a great opportunity to start everything from
the beginning and improve your life. You have 365 days to try something new and
extraordinary. There’s no need and time to dwell on the failures of the
previous year. You’d better begin this year by setting new priorities and
goals. This year many people will try to increase their incomes, find love and
move up the promotional ladder.
Unfortunately, you may not reach all your dreams, because
success requires constant and radical changes of your outlook and inner world.
If you realize that the previous year was absolutely unsuccessful and full of
negative events, you shouldn’t think that your karma is bad. It means that
you’re still going down the wrong path. As soon as you understand it, you’ll be
able to wave goodbye to your troubles and fears, since only those people who
work hard and believe in their potential abilities can make progress in their
lives.
Frankly speaking, I don’t believe in horoscopes and
predictions. I’m sure that every person has equal chances to develop themselves
this year. There’re no favorable and unfavorable years or days. We all live on
the same planet and have all resources and tools to make miracles, no matter
what year it is. I want to draw your attention to the things that keep a modern
person chronically worried and strained. Do your best to eliminate them this
year if you want to become stronger and change yourself for better. You should
realize that it won’t be easy, because the hardest battle is against yourself.
Don’t be scared of going through difficulties. The game is worth the candle.
1. Filler words
Some people believe that human eyes are the mirror of the
soul. It’s a good idea, but I have a bit another point of view. I think that
your language and communicative skills reflect and express your outlook. The
purity of your language shows that you’re highly intelligent and developed
personality.
Nowadays, a great number of people cannot imagine their
language without useless filler words. If you start listening carefully to what
other people say and how they do it, you’ll notice dozens of annoying words and
sounds, which make people clumsy at expressing their thoughts and emotions.
Have you ever tried to eliminate the habit of using filler words in your
language? If you respect yourself, you should remove obscene words and fillers.
Step by step, you can make your fluent speech rich on meaningful and beautiful
words. Just try to reduce the frequency of fillers and then you’ll forget about
them once and for all.
2. A habit of comparing yourself to others
You may not know but this habit is extremely dangerous. If
you’re very susceptible and suspicious person by nature, you should rid
yourself of this negative habit. When you compare yourself to others, you may
either enjoy the feeling of superiority or damage your self-esteem.
We all live in a society where people are divided into two
groups: poor and rich. It means that their lives are different in many aspects.
Nowadays there’re many irresistible temptations around us. I’ve noticed that
social networks are a significant part of this problem. Every day people add
millions of photos in order to demonstrate their success and colorful life.
They don’t show their failures and constant problems. When you’re surfing the
profiles of your friends you can see their smiles, interesting adventures and
prosperity. It appears as if you’re the only person on this planet who is
sitting in front of the computer and wasting the most productive years of your
life. That’s not true. They may have the same issues and worries too. Instead
of analyzing the lives of your friends, you’d better focus on your
accomplishments and try to make appropriate efforts to make your dreams come
true.
3. Your past
Your past is just the history of your previous life. I still
cannot understand why do people repeat their mistakes and expect to see or get
something new. Maybe they yearn to justify themselves and correct all wrongs of
the past? There’s no need, because no one and nothing can exert influence on
the past. Wise people tend to work hard in order to change their present moment
for the better and make a contribution to their future. People who cannot take
control of their past memories are limited, because the burden of the past doesn’t
let them start a new story in their life.
Your past is the chain of events, actions and stages of life
that changed your personality either for good or for worse. If you dare to let
your past be the past, you’ll be able to open up new perspectives in 2015. Keep
in mind that constant focusing on the past is the habit of unsuccessful people.
4. Envy
Envy is a destructive habit of almost every person in the
world. It can easily spoil friendship and other types of relationship, because
no one likes to communicate with hidden enemies. If you want to overcome envy,
you should ask yourself the following questions: “Why do I envy others? Would
that give me an opportunity to reach my goals?” You should realize that envy
can only double your problems and sufferings. Try to eliminate it and don’t
believe people who persuade you that envy can galvanize you into action.
Concentrate on your life, career and hobbies. You won’t have vacant time to
envy other people. Don’t forget to protect yourself against the envy of evil-wishers.
All you have to do is to stay away from potentially envious people this year.
5. Stress
This year you should make high stress resistance your aim.
Those who think that sedatives can handle the situation are seriously mistaken.
Nowadays there’re many other effective and safe ways to reach calmness and
moderation. Massages and other healing therapies can improve your nervous
system, but the source of your worries and anxiety is your mind. You won’t
achieve a desirable result until you start changing your mindset. Your fears
and deep inner conflicts are the main enemies of your life. In 2015 your main
task is to think positively, because it’s the best remedy against stress and
depression.
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